Hi everyone! When you are going through a breakup sometimes the best way to move on is by having a lot of distractions and keeping busy. That is exactly what I did when Max and I broke up and it really helped. I decided to share that story with all of you today. Back in January when all of this was first happening I figured focusing on myself was the best way to distract myself from the pain I was feeling in my heart. This when when I dove into after college planning head first. I was a senior in college and had to start job searching and making a plan. I started job searching on sites like Indeed, Careerbuilder, and Monster, just to get a sense of my options. Once I saw what companies were looking for I fixed up my resume, created a great cover letter, and began applying. And let me tell you, it was the perfect way to distract myself from my personal problems. After applying to countless jobs I ended up getting 12 interviews and five job offers. All of the interview days, preparation, and appointments kept me busy and got my mind off of Max (for the most part). I do not usually say things like this, but I was so proud of myself and what I had accomplished. Even though I had been feeling so broken inside, distracting myself with this planning really helped me focus on myself and put my life together. I was able to succeed despite everything that I was feeling personally. As Ingrid Michaelson says, all the broken hearts in the world still beat. This saying resonates with my story above because despite everything I was going through, life still continues and moves. We just have to learn how to manage our pain and move with it.
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