Hi everyone! I hope you all had a wonderful New Years and entered 2016 on a happy note! Today, I wanted to talk about goals, specifically my new goal for 2016.
Each year I decide on one big goal I want to accomplish for the year. Usually, it is a goal so big that it will take most of the year to complete, along with other small goals adding up to it along the way. My family and I have always done this. If I recall correctly it's something my grandpa started years ago. Now, my goals have gotten more private, personal, and meaningful.
In 2015 my goal was to make my relationship with Max work. Things were really rocky between us and I wanted to put my all into fixing it. Unfortunately he didn't feel the same dedication as I did, which lead to this goal being unfinished. Now, in 2016, I am determined to complete my new goal.
My new goal for the year is to stop blaming myself for things out of my control. For example, even though I'm so happy with Eli, I still feel so much guilt and responsibility for the way my relationship with Max ended. I always tell myself I gave up and could have done more, but in reality I couldn't. That is something I need to stop blaming myself for, and continue moving on with my life. Completing this goal in 2016 will take work and be a huge accomplishment but I am dedicated to the task.
What are some of your goals for 2016? Until next time!
Each year I decide on one big goal I want to accomplish for the year. Usually, it is a goal so big that it will take most of the year to complete, along with other small goals adding up to it along the way. My family and I have always done this. If I recall correctly it's something my grandpa started years ago. Now, my goals have gotten more private, personal, and meaningful.
In 2015 my goal was to make my relationship with Max work. Things were really rocky between us and I wanted to put my all into fixing it. Unfortunately he didn't feel the same dedication as I did, which lead to this goal being unfinished. Now, in 2016, I am determined to complete my new goal.
My new goal for the year is to stop blaming myself for things out of my control. For example, even though I'm so happy with Eli, I still feel so much guilt and responsibility for the way my relationship with Max ended. I always tell myself I gave up and could have done more, but in reality I couldn't. That is something I need to stop blaming myself for, and continue moving on with my life. Completing this goal in 2016 will take work and be a huge accomplishment but I am dedicated to the task.
What are some of your goals for 2016? Until next time!