The moment is going to come for us all when we have to face a dreaded step in the breakup process; seeing your ex in a picture with their new boyfriend/girlfriend. That day happened to be today for me. I saw a picture of Max smiling and happy with his new girlfriend. Even though it has been just about four months, a wave of anxiety came over me, the crying started, and the cycle of blame began again. Dealing with a breakup is not easy, and these little things make it worse. Even though you can hide an ex from your Facebook news feed, Twitter feed, and Instagram, many times you still feel the need to look. That is exactly how I am, and it is how I saw the picture. I consider these moments to be extremely difficult, but vital in the breakup process. No matter what, there will be a day when you see a picture, wall post, or video that will overwhelm you. But, it is so important to have those moments and move on from them, because it shows just how strong you are. When I look back on this moment in a few months, I am sure the pain will not be as harsh. You just have to get through all of these things and come out the other side. If we avoid each painful step, we will never truly get over what happened in our past. These steps get us closer and closer to being okay once again. Thanks for reading everyone. These blog posts are a great release for me and I hope you are enjoying them!
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